Navigating Change

Jun 13

Experiencing a significant life shift often changes our perspective on the world. This transformation can be both exciting and challenging, especially when we want those who have been lifelong companions to see things through our new lens. However, sometimes they resist—content with their current view, fearful of change, or still learning from their existing perspective.

Understanding Different Perspectives

It's crucial to remember that if others are happy with their perspective, who can say our lens is superior? There is no absolute right or wrong, better or worse—only our perceptions and judgments that shape our reality.

The Journey of Personal Transformation

Early in our journey of change, we often wish for those around us to change as well, driven by good intentions. However, our approach can sometimes push people away instead of drawing them closer. Our passion and excitement may inadvertently create distance.

Giving Others Time and Space

We quickly learned the importance of giving others the time and space to adapt to our changes. They need the freedom to decide for themselves without feeling pressured, judged, or expected to change.

Embracing Patience and Understanding

During a transformation, it's natural to want to share your excitement and have others be on the same page. But remember, they might not want to change—are you okay with that? They might need more time to understand and make their own decisions. Are you prepared to wait patiently without imposing judgments or expectations? Reflect on whether you view yourself as superior to others or feel the need to shield yourself from them.

Considering Others’ Perspectives

Consider how your transformation might feel from others’ viewpoints. Do they feel inadequate because you’re trying to change them, leading to defensiveness? Or do they fear that your change will alter your relationship with them, causing resistance?

Learning from Shared Experiences

Throughout different phases of life, we encounter people who teach us lessons and share experiences. Not everyone will transition with us from phase to phase, but shared memories always remain. Regardless of where you stand with those around you, seeking a positive outcome ensures a beneficial experience for everyone involved.

Remember…

Navigating change is a deeply personal journey that can significantly impact those around us. By understanding and respecting different perspectives, we can foster positive relationships and create a supportive environment for everyone. Remember, there is always a positive outcome if you are looking for one.

Questions / Journal Prompts. Share in the comments.

Have you had any relationship changes since the beginning of your awakening?
What happened?
How did it feel?
What did you do?
What would you do differently next time if you had the chance?
Or how are you interacting with those around you? What lens are you seeing your relationships from?

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